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Post by awesomeace on Oct 18, 2012 20:52:11 GMT -5
didn't know your name was Evan bengals....
never had a situation even remotely close to this, but hope you get better shaggz
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Post by Shaggzfate on Oct 18, 2012 22:25:20 GMT -5
Thanks guys. Bengal you are 100% like on the being hard on yourself. I'm doing everything in my power to keep her. It's just something time will tell... I've decided I won't text her again after the last message I sent tonight. I just feel its wrong, I mean nothing about it seems right to me. Its not that I'm in denial or anything, it just isnt adding up, it doesn't feel like she means it deep down... I don't know if I can say it clear then that. Its just what my intuition is saying right now. Dont worry about the announcement deal, I wouldnt be upset unless you put something like "Haha Loser". Which I know you guys wouldn't in any way other then jokingly, and you guys are a good lot, you wouldnt joke at times like these.
Thank you all again for being here, a couple of you guys who PM'd me know exactly what I'm going through as you all have as well. It's good to know I have you guys to turn to with times like these. And can always get advice from.
Ace, feel lucky you haven't had a situation like this yet. It's the worst feeling in the world. Especially when you are already at rock bottom.
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Post by TonOdanK on Oct 19, 2012 14:45:39 GMT -5
sorry to hear about that shaggz, i didnt really notice anything either. i hope youre feeling better and have your spirits up
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Post by TonOdanK on Oct 19, 2012 14:48:25 GMT -5
not to get off topic but i have the same name as you bengal, well sort of
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Post by Miss Lacy on Oct 19, 2012 16:02:02 GMT -5
... but this isn't something that advice can fix.. My girl broke up with me due to the stress of my medical issues and my depression that has been bad for months. We've been in a long distance relationship since june when she moved and its ripped us apart. I've said everything I could and it didnt matter... nothing matters. From one broken heart to another, I've been navigating the same path and feel your pain. ((((shaggz)))) Stress. Depression. Being ripped apart. Doing everything you can--but it doesn't matter. Because nothing matters. The feelings get overwhelming at times and well-intentioned advice/support can often make it worse. It isn't like I don't already know all those things people keep telling me. (In fact, their "advice" can easily become annoying--so I retreat even farther under that rock.) For me, I guess, I make due by striving for a balance between living and surviving. I focus on doing the things that I need to do from one day to the next--short term goals. And I try to live-in-the-moment by embracing the daily communications and interactions that energize me. (Fortunately, I have a school full of young students to help positively distract me--and well, you guys too. ;D ) My best advice? One day at a time, my dear.
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Post by Shaggzfate on Oct 19, 2012 17:29:46 GMT -5
I do understand that 100% as well. Sometimes time is all you have to fix things. But I also know that the waiting is torture as well unless you have some way to completely immerse yourself in something else.
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Post by Miss Lacy on Oct 19, 2012 18:09:20 GMT -5
So you actively seek out things to distract yourself. There's a whole lotta life being lived out there in the world-- even though all you wanna do is crawl up in your hole and die. For this short term, it does help.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 19, 2012 18:53:00 GMT -5
There's times where I feel all by myself too, dude. No one gives a shit about you IRL except for your family - FACT. As much as my family is not what i'd want them to be, I still love them, because at the end of the day that is all you have man.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 19, 2012 19:08:40 GMT -5
remember, i posted this to show u we all have our own problems.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 19, 2012 21:01:39 GMT -5
didn't know your name was Evan bengals.... never had a situation even remotely close to this, but hope you get better shaggz when i did a march madness thing with a couple of other people in the graveyard, they saw my full name because it required our names(divebitch, 101mitch, panther, ravenman, marchingon, susteeldevil, plaxicofan, jeffb, etc) and my youtube account use to have my first name on my page but i forgot they changed alot of stuff lately so its not there anymore but people on youtube are lately are switching there youtube accounts to there google email and therefore its displays there full name, which i will likely be doing very soon
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