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Post by Deleted on Oct 18, 2012 10:14:16 GMT -5
Shaggz I know how tough that is and it seems like the pain will never go away. It will eventually and you will find someone to love. Time my friend it takes some time. I know you have had it rough but hang in there. Things will get better. As the others have said you have friends here and are here for you. Good luck and hit me up in PM's if you want.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 18, 2012 12:40:26 GMT -5
Just do what my son does and say whatever,,life goes on. I told my son long time ago do not let a woman run or ruin your life.
I know this may be a little harsh,but your a Raider fan brah. I learned long time ago do not beg,do not make a fool out of yourself. You will look back in anger.
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Post by Shaggzfate on Oct 18, 2012 15:23:29 GMT -5
Thanks guys...
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Post by 101mitch on Oct 18, 2012 15:58:41 GMT -5
I am fifthing Sean. Hope you can turn it around...
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Post by ceven on Oct 18, 2012 18:26:05 GMT -5
Seventhing.
Good luck pal. You seem like a good fella, It'll all come back to ya one day.
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Post by plax on Oct 18, 2012 18:31:39 GMT -5
hey man, just relax. gotta let things cool down and let it settle itself. you know where to find me
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Post by Jancey on Oct 18, 2012 18:46:19 GMT -5
8thing... (well technically 7thing since ceven skipped 6 ) Sorry Shaggz...Hope things get better for you
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Post by Deleted on Oct 18, 2012 19:13:21 GMT -5
well i would like to say a couple of things
first off, sorry of "accidentally" clicking the "make annoucement" button on this thread. i saw the thread but i didnt mean to click it and try to let everyone else know about this. my mistake, wasnt trying to be an jerk
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its hard to give anybody advice especially since i dont know what your going through. and its a bit silly for me to talk about my personal life online to a bunch of people that ive never met, but ive done it once before a month ago, so because of what your going through shaggz, im also gonna share some parts of my life that is somewhat similar to you
i havent really had depression that much, but ive always been a stressed out kind of guy most of the time. i always have and still am a person that is WAY to hard on myself. my parents tell me that all the time, but i do it all the time. every know and then, i always think to myself "im not good enough" or "im not doing a good enough job". i work pretty hard at work every day though because of it and i use it to my advantage to make myself want to improve and get better
but often i always feel im not good enough to please anyone, that i cant ever gain trust of others or even have the ability to trust others
when i was still in high school, i NEVER trusted people. because i was always stabbed in the back at some points, and people always asked me "why dont you trust people"? but im not like that anymore and trusting people isnt my problem
still my problem to this day im not good enough IMO, even though people know i am, i still feel im not. will i ever overcome that? who knows. i honestly doubt it though, because thats just in my DNA. eventually this problem brings me to breakdowns at some point though, but its not often
why am i talking about this though you guys might wonder? well i need to find a way to feel better and be happy. and thats where you guys have always came in. whenever im having a bad day or sad day, i know all of you guys on the forums would make me happy. if i think of you guys im all of a sudden happy again
thats how i overcome my sad problems, you guys. reading and seeing your comments always have cheered me up again. it seems very silly and stupid though, because none of us will probably never see each other in real life anyway, but we are a family. its been more than online friends now, i call this a family where we can all get together and talk about whats going on
of course since i got a youtube account all of you know what i look like anyway so it doesnt bother me about privacy that much. i havent disclosed my last name yet, but most already know my name is "Evan"
well its all said and done, we all look out for each other till the end, and thats what family does. if someone needs to vent or needs a shoulder to cry on, we are all around to help each other out.
i hope all one day we can all become more closer and share more of our REAL LIFE stories often
shaggz, it might seem weird to say this but......THANK YOU for telling this to us. we all need to be able to share our personal life more often in the future eventually, and you did that
keep your head high and dont worry about the negatives, just remember that you got people whom care about you when its all said and done. we all got each others backs, no questions asked
(sorry for the long random rant, i feel a bit stupid for typing this all out. LOL)
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Post by mitch9234 on Oct 18, 2012 20:30:20 GMT -5
^ Most of what you wrote are my issues as well
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Post by mitch9234 on Oct 18, 2012 20:31:30 GMT -5
But shaggz you'll get better, I wish you the best
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