theWILLmckoy
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Post by theWILLmckoy on Apr 18, 2015 11:43:02 GMT -5
Just curious, do you wear a wedding ring? No. My wife and I haven't worn our rings in months because we kept losing them, at least that's why I stopped. But the young lady knows I'm married and in the seperation process.
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Post by steelers54 on Apr 18, 2015 12:21:07 GMT -5
ms of should I post else where? There, got my title out of the way now here's the nitty gritty. I got the digits from a lovely young lady the day I quit my job last week. I'd seen her around during my stint working there and always thought she was gorgeous, but never had the...to approach her. Not to mention that I'm married, now soon to be seperated, and always thought she was out of my league. The fact that I even have her number is still stunning to me. She's a classy independent type of woman. I've never courted anyone with her social/economic stature and don't want to screw it up! Last night she texted me she was having a glass of wine and I knew I had to really step my game up! I may have gone too far though. Her bday is Tuesday and I decided to send her a birthday flower cake to her office. We've been texting everyday, but I've been somewhat calculated with it. The day after she gave me her number is when I decided to text her, which I feel was still too soon. Then of course I couldn't resist the good morning text the next day. I'm really afraid if coming on too strong. I was looking up some advice on dating/texting and I've been doing it wrong according to a lot of people. What do you guys and girls think? A.) Your still married. My question would be is your marriage beyond repair? (no need to go into details) B.) "Soon to be separated"- I take it you are still living together? Which could be a red flag to some women you may want to date. C.)Sent you a text saying she was having a glass of wine.How do you know she was really having a glass of wine? Unless she sent a picture showing she was drinking wine along with the text. You thought she was gorgeous,a classy independent type women & she gave you her number other than that what do you know about this woman? You could be going after her on the rebound coming from a marriage that is falling apart and soon to be separated, you need to step back a little and give your self some time to collect your thoughts & feelings. Better to look before you leap back into the pool. Think with the head on your shoulders an not the one between your legs.
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theWILLmckoy
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Post by theWILLmckoy on Apr 18, 2015 12:43:27 GMT -5
ms of should I post else where? There, got my title out of the way now here's the nitty gritty. I got the digits from a lovely young lady the day I quit my job last week. I'd seen her around during my stint working there and always thought she was gorgeous, but never had the...to approach her. Not to mention that I'm married, now soon to be seperated, and always thought she was out of my league. The fact that I even have her number is still stunning to me. She's a classy independent type of woman. I've never courted anyone with her social/economic stature and don't want to screw it up! Last night she texted me she was having a glass of wine and I knew I had to really step my game up! I may have gone too far though. Her bday is Tuesday and I decided to send her a birthday flower cake to her office. We've been texting everyday, but I've been somewhat calculated with it. The day after she gave me her number is when I decided to text her, which I feel was still too soon. Then of course I couldn't resist the good morning text the next day. I'm really afraid if coming on too strong. I was looking up some advice on dating/texting and I've been doing it wrong according to a lot of people. What do you guys and girls think? A.) Your still married. My question would be is your marriage beyond repair? (no need to go into details) B.) "Soon to be separated"- I take it you are still living together? Which could be a red flag to some women you may want to date. C.)Sent you a text saying she was having a glass of wine.How do you know she was really having a glass of wine? Unless she sent a picture showing she was drinking wine along with the text. You thought she was gorgeous,a classy independent type women & she gave you her number other than that what do you know about this woman? You could be going after her on the rebound coming from a marriage that is falling apart and soon to be separated, you need to step back a little and give your self some time to collect your thoughts & feelings. Better to look before you leap back into the pool. Think with the head on your shoulders an not the one between your legs. Man, you guys should be doctors or something! These responses are gold! We talked on the phone for a while she knows my situation. Right now I'm going from my house to my moms. Kind of back and forth. I don't know much about her but I'm getting to know her and this definitely isn't a rebound thing. I've been admiring her for months. She's what I want it seems...
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Post by steelers54 on Apr 18, 2015 14:16:33 GMT -5
A.) Your still married. My question would be is your marriage beyond repair? (no need to go into details) B.) "Soon to be separated"- I take it you are still living together? Which could be a red flag to some women you may want to date. C.)Sent you a text saying she was having a glass of wine.How do you know she was really having a glass of wine? Unless she sent a picture showing she was drinking wine along with the text. You thought she was gorgeous,a classy independent type women & she gave you her number other than that what do you know about this woman? You could be going after her on the rebound coming from a marriage that is falling apart and soon to be separated, you need to step back a little and give your self some time to collect your thoughts & feelings. Better to look before you leap back into the pool. Think with the head on your shoulders an not the one between your legs. Man, you guys should be doctors or something! These responses are gold! We talked on the phone for a while she knows my situation. Right now I'm going from my house to my moms. Kind of back and forth. I don't know much about her but I'm getting to know her and this definitely isn't a rebound thing. I've been admiring her for months. She's what I want it seems...[/b] Okay it isn't a rebound thing. Take it slow and see how things go forward from this point, at this stage it's more lust than anything else, (getting something you thought was beyond your reach). Wait an see how you truly feel after the lust has worn off and you get to know the person behind all that beauty, you may or may not like what you find.
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Post by Deleted on Apr 18, 2015 17:29:48 GMT -5
That's some pretty good advise from Steeler54.
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Post by Divebitch on Apr 18, 2015 20:13:59 GMT -5
That's some pretty good advise from Steeler54. It's remotely possible that Craig means it, but it's more just to piss me off, brings him much joy. Uh oh. Don't worry, I won't let him do it.
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Post by Deleted on Apr 18, 2015 20:18:30 GMT -5
Will heres my advice....
Since you are fixing to be single,I wouldnt worry about a woman for at least a year.
I would drink a whole lotta beer,do a whole helluva lot of fishing and hunting,and mud boggin,and play a lot of golf. Like Barack Simpson.
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theWILLmckoy
Heisman Candidate
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Post by theWILLmckoy on Apr 19, 2015 7:14:58 GMT -5
Man, you guys should be doctors or something! These responses are gold! We talked on the phone for a while she knows my situation. Right now I'm going from my house to my moms. Kind of back and forth. I don't know much about her but I'm getting to know her and this definitely isn't a rebound thing. I've been admiring her for months. She's what I want it seems...[/b] Okay it isn't a rebound thing. Take it slow and see how things go forward from this point, at this stage it's more lust than anything else, (getting something you thought was beyond your reach). Wait an see how you truly feel after the lust has worn off and you get to know the person behind all that beauty, you may or may not like what you find.[/quote] Thanks for this. I need it...
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theWILLmckoy
Heisman Candidate
WE LIVE AS KINGS, BUT JESUS IS GOD! - Swoope
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Post by theWILLmckoy on Apr 19, 2015 7:16:55 GMT -5
Will heres my advice.... Since you are fixing to be single,I wouldnt worry about a woman for at least a year. I would drink a whole lotta beer,do a whole helluva lot of fishing and hunting,and mud boggin,and play a lot of golf. Like Barack Simpson. Can't do that bruh. I'm a lover not a hunter...I am getting more physically active though. Gonna start playing some pick up b ball again...
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Post by MrCincinnati on Apr 19, 2015 7:21:52 GMT -5
Wish I could give some advice on this, but not too long ago I had my own problems.
I do have a co-worker a work though who has been dating a woman for 5 years now, who is "soon to be seperated" apparently. The last 15 years now, she and her husband haven't been together, but they aren't "divorced" either. My co-worker cannot legally marry her though since she is not technically divorced, but apparently it doesn't bother her "husband" or soon to be "ex-husband".
I can't tell you what to do on this, but I figured I throw this piece of information out there.
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